Memento Mori: My Macabre Fixation: Steve Huff “Doing what people want”, but at what price?

This article struck me as a very important read for us paranormal researchers, something we really do need to keep in mind .

 

Steve Huff “Doing what people want”, but at what price?

The paranormal community has it’s fair share of controversial characters, no doubt that Steve Huff is one of those. When it comes to pleasing the masses, no doubt he’s a paranormal enthusiast favorite. Steve’s a smooth, fast talker who can pretty much sell anything he’s putting out there. This includes trying to convince people that he’s contacting the dead practically before the coroner has arrived. To him this is probably is alright, as many clamber to his page to get a listen to what people believe are their favorite stars speaking out about their journey to the other side.

Before getting into why this irritates me so, let me start by setting up what’s transpired over the last several hours.

His most recent video is what he claims to be spirit interaction concerning the recently deceased B.B. King.King died May 14, 2015 in Las Vegas Nevada. Upon hearing about his death, a buzz across Facebook started already predicting that Huff would be talking to B.B within the next 24 hrs. People were right. May 15th Huff posted a video claiming to have received over 50 requests to hear from King. He did so using his Andre’s box and SCD-1. He starts with his Andre’s Box. In usual fashion, garbled sounds come through the box. As noises start to form, Steve puts up text across the screen suggesting what’s being said. For one, this is misleading and influencing those listening to it. Instead of  allowing the audience to listen and make these determinations for themselves, Steve puts what he wants the audience to believe to supports his claim. He claims matter-of-factly, that this validates the Andre’s box. I cannot personally hear what he is claiming to hear and from the reactions many, others cannot either.

Many took to the comments section to express their distaste for Huff’s antics. Huff mostly reacted by swiftly removing any rebuttal. Those that he did take the time to reply to, like mine, he claimed he was doing “what I do” and doing “what people want to see”.

There’s no doubt he’s right about that. His counters rose to 10,680 views within the first 17 hrs posted. My thoughts are that people don’t care about the reality of the situation. They want the ghost story. Most aren’t even really thinking about the stories unfolding in the privacy of these people’s homes, as they grieve for their loss. Most people see celebrities as a commodity, not as human beings. There’s an air of entitlement that these celebs owe it to everyone to be a public story no matter what.

Even in death they owe it to us to perform? What about their families? Do they sign on for this?

What happened to advocating for the dead? Steve said he feels it would be wrong to not pass on the information. Information, that he tries to convince others, are messages from beyond the grave. Let’s face it – he really doesn’t know. Nobody does.

Why stir up emotional turmoil over speculation?

My View

I’m not gonna sugar coat here, and I assure you this is not going to be the cliff notes version of how I feel. This is going to be long. This is going to be as direct as possible, as to have no misunderstanding of how I, and many others feel.

There’s a lot of issues going on in the paranormal community that I see people addressing daily. Bad moral practices by paranormal teams. Bad business practices by event promoters. False credentials being presented to boost resumes. Bad evidence. Bad people with criminal records -up to child molestation- doing residential investigations. The list goes on and on and on.

What about material being presented publicly, that may cause emotional damage to grieving families?

It’s my observation anytime anyone addresses issues like this it’s instantly labeled as “para-drama”. This has become a safe word for those facing opposition in the community for what many see as unfavorable practices – even if the accused is clearly in the wrong. Label it “para-drama” and it seems instantly those contesting are the ones at fault.

It isn’t drama if the situation is potentially harmful, and an adversary is attempting to bring public awareness to immoral practices. Stop abusing the term “drama”, and stop displacing accountability in the name of being accepted by these people. If people cared half as much about morality as they do popularity, we may actually begin to evolve and move forward in this “community” without theDRAMA.

So now with that put out there, getting onto with my issue with Steve Huff. Last thing I wanna do is fluff his ego by pointing out that the guy is popular, but its a fact that he is. I don’t deny that. I can appreciate another’s hard work or rise to success, when done with good intent. He’s obviously got the ability and/or talent to tell people what they want to hear, and show them what they want to see. He openly admits, this is what he does. I respect that he’s straight forward about that, but where do we draw the line? What price do we pay to “give people what they want“?

I know his followers are going to come over here, read this and say nasty shit about me and I’m cool with that. For the record I’m not a ‘hater”, or jealous. I’m someone who sincerely sees moral faultwith what others see as entertainment or God-forbid “research” (used loosely in this case). I rather pursue what I do with my integrity intact. I don’t, in fact, give people what they want. I tell people what they don’t want to hear, and what they need to hear.

I’m not claiming to be perfect. I have made mistakes in the past that make me cringe today, but Ilearned from them. I have endless faults, but I can say in good conscious I try my best to be honorable in my actions. I feel I do my best to advocate for the living and the deceased. I would never pervert or exploit the tragedy of another for my popularity nor my pocket book. Seeing this type of non-sense makes me want to be a part of this “community”, less and less.

Why does this situation get under my skin? Why do I care what Steve Huff does? I’ll let my message to Steve himself explain. Excuse the language, I was angry at the moment after reading his response. (sorry that the screen shot bounces around a bit)

I took a few minutes to reflect on the fact that maybe my anger was overriding what I really wanted to do, which was to express why I felt it was wrong. I’m human. I realized through my reaction, I was probably going to receive a “shut down” response because of my name calling. I decided to go ahead and really express why his practices upset me personally. I have no clue if he’ll respond or not, probably not because my best guess is that he really doesn’t give a shit. If you’re not with him, your opinion is worthless.

 

**I just want to add as a side note that Robin William’s daughter Zelda left social media after her fathers death because of the 3 ring circus the internet became with people harrassing her and cashing in on her father’s death. Why in the fuck would anyone want to contribute to that?

I’m not going to sit here and try to bash Steve as a person. I don’t personally know the man. All I know him for is what he puts out there for the public, and for that I am entitled to an opinion. I am openly going to say that I absolutely disagree with his practices.

I pose the question to you all.

At what price are we willing to sacrifice another’s emotional welfare; for ratings, for crowd pleasing, for spectatorship, or for monetary gain? 

Steve Huff isn’t the only one guilty of this. I see it all the time. But like any one in the public eye, as he is, I feel that comes with some responsibility to be a good role mode and to set the standard for others out there.

Sometimes the RIGHT thing, isn’t the popular thing.

Source: Memento Mori: My Macabre Fixation: Steve Huff “Doing what people want”, but at what price?

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